Getting Your Mind Right: My Top 10 Picks for Confidence and Expanding Your Mind

You are who you think you are. If you wake up one day and decide, “I’m going to be the best golfer in the world,” then you can be. It starts with belief.

Your subconscious mind doesn’t know the difference between reality and imagination-so what you tell yourself, especially repeatedly, begins to shape your external world.

Take Marilyn Monroe. She could walk around New York City completely unnoticed, just a woman on the street. But then, she’d turn to a friend and say, “Want me to become her?” And suddenly, something shifted. People stared. Whispers began. Crowds gathered. All because she knew how to manipulate her energy, her aura: how to command presence by flipping a switch in her mind first.

Reality follows mindset.

Confidence is coded in your beliefs.

1. Wizard Liz (YouTube)

   

   A woman who came from nothing. From an abusive household, no money, and no confidence to a multi-millionare getting anything she wants and inspiring people around the world, this woman has changed my perspective on my self worth, money, and living in abundance. With videos such as "How to create your dream reality" or "What to do when you feel jealous", she started simply filming herself preaching how she feels. I strongly recommend listening to her whether in the car on the way to work or feeling overwhelmed. She has been my hidden gem for years. I hope she becomes yours as well.

   
   
   
   
   
   

2. The 48 Laws of Power – Robert Greene

   
   
   
   

   

   
   

   A bold guide to power, strategy, and influence. This book breaks down timeless laws used by powerful figures throughout history; teaching you how to command respect, move strategically, and protect your energy. It's intense, but if used wisely, it's a game-changer.

   
   
   
   

3. The Confident Mind – Dr. Nate Zinsser

   
   
   
   

   

   
   
   
   

   Written by the mental performance coach for elite athletes and West Point cadets, this book rewired the way I think about confidence. It teaches you that confidence isn’t something you’re born with-it’s something you train. A must-read for high-achievers and anyone who doubts themselves.

4. How to Win Friends & Influence People – Dale Carnegie

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   This one is timeless for a reason. It teaches you how to build real relationships, become more likable, and influence without manipulation. Whether you’re in business, sales, or just trying to connect better- it’s a classic that delivers.

5. Atomic Habits – James Clear

   
   

   

   
   

   Small habits. Big results. This book shows how tiny, consistent actions can completely change your life. If you’re feeling stuck, unmotivated, or need a system to upgrade your routine, this is it. Easy to follow, powerful to apply.

   
   

6. The Mountain Is You – Brianna Wiest

   
   

   

   
   

   This one hit deep. It’s about self-sabotage, healing your inner wounds, and learning how to stop being the obstacle in your own path. If you’ve ever asked “Why do I keep blocking my own blessings?”, this book is your mirror and your guide.

   
   

7. The Four Agreements – Don Miguel Ruiz

   
   

   

   
   
   
   

   A spiritual but practical blueprint for inner peace. These four “agreements” with yourself—be impeccable with your word, don’t take things personally, don’t make assumptions, and always do your best: sound simple, but they transform how you see everything.

   
   

8. 101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think – Brianna Wiest

   
   

   

   
   

   Exactly what the title says. Short, mind-expanding essays on everything from emotional intelligence to purpose, relationships, and self-worth. It’s a book you can pick up anytime and always find a truth that hits exactly where you are.

   
   

9. Becoming Supernatural – Dr. Joe Dispenza

   
   

   

   
   

   If you’re into manifestation, neuroscience, or spiritual transformation, this one takes it to the next level. It explains how your thoughts, energy, and emotions literally change your biology and attract new outcomes. A mix of science and the mystical that actually makes sense.

   
   

10. The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success – Deepak Chopra

    
    

    

    
    

Simple, powerful truths about success that have nothing to do with hustle culture. This book teaches you how to align with universal laws: like intention, detachment, giving, and purpose, to attract success naturally and peacefully. A breath of fresh air in a world of burnout.